Life is made of relationships. Friends, family, romantic lovers, strangers you meet once but never forget and so on. It's amazing and challenging and yeah, lots of things can be said about relationships. It's all about humans, people. Never easy, always exciting.
But my life is mine, yours is yours and we are responsible for our own.
When it comes to the subject of my last blogpost, suicide, which I really don't enjoy to write about but somehow feel like I must, because it's important. When I write that we should be better at listening to each other, I don't put all the responsibility in the hands of the listener. I put the reponsibility of compassion, kindness and empathy in everyone's hands - oh yes!
To be a good person, that's up to you.
But the suicide, that's just tragic and very sad. No one is to blame.
The thing is, if we are a bit more open earlier on - it hasn't have to become so damn dark and terrible. Don't worry about someone's thoughts of suicide, just worry about being there for someone you love.
Do you understand what I'm trying to say?
Take very good care of yourself! You are important. Love yourself. Be the best you can be for yourself and it will be easy to be a good person.
Fuck the darkness, invite the light and be love.
I don't know how to do it, but I am trying every day. Meditation helps.
Hugs and love!